Friday, December 9, 2011

Ecstasy


Ah ecstasy, finest in form
the formal of silk, of satin
slid over skin like caress
the dress, art itself
Da Vinci’s last brushstroke
on canvas already masterpiece
Ecstasy in shape, arched
huskily beckoned words
paint air and page with iambs
spun as though on potter’s wheel
the careful meter coaxing weighted breath
motion, models, music
make symphony of percussion
ecstasy, gift and treasure
passion laid back on page
kissed by sight and loved
in the brief meeting of eyelashes
loved as eyes love
the rise of mountains, the slip
slow into gentle valleys
mapped by light and shadow
ecstasy, twin rivers of luminescence
meet in fall of shaded silhouettes
tantalizing, mesmerizing
temptation sated and honed
by poet’s palette, the taste
of summer’s honey wind
and winter’s chill sharp
on skin and imagination
Ecstasy, finest in form, ephemeral
skilled hands crafting beauty
stirs heart, mind, ecstasy
priceless, ecstasy
breathtaking

Monday, November 28, 2011

Two Pillows


There’s a reason
I sleep with two pillows.
One’s for you
when finally you rest your head
next to mine as we lie awake
each lost in the other’s eyes
til night draws the curtains
of our eyelids closed.

There’s a reason
I sleep with two pillows.
When my heart aches,
when I’m lonely,
when I can’t stand
staring at the ceiling anymore
I pretend one is you.

There’s a reason
I sleep with two pillows.
One is the place
where I do all my dreaming
and the other’s for the ghost
of love yet to come.

There’s a reason
I sleep with two pillows.
One is for me.
The other’s for you.

Monday, November 14, 2011

Some Day Soon


Love, I bet Cassandra never cared much
for the stories of her day
I bet instead she was looking ahead
and smiling at our fate

I’m not supposed to
be dreaming about you
and what you’ll look like
on our wedding day
I’m not supposed to
already know our children by name

I don’t care if somehow
it makes me less of a man
some day soon, with you
I’ll be so much more

Love, I have to confess
even though we haven’t met
I’ve known since I learned to read
you and I are written in the stars

I’m not supposed to
be dreaming about you
and what you’ll look like
on our wedding day
I’m not supposed to
already know our children by name

I don’t care if somehow
it makes me less of a man
some day soon, with you
I’ll be so much more

Love, if someone is out there
spinning the threads of destiny
I bet they’re proud of the work
they’ve put into our tapestry

I’m not supposed to
be dreaming about you
and what you’ll look like
on our wedding day
I’m not supposed to
already know our children by name

I don’t care if somehow
it makes me less of a man
some day soon, with you
I’ll be so much more

Lightswitch


She was always off and on
like a little girl
playing with a lightswitch
I don’t think my eyes ever adjusted
and now it seems her bulb burnt out.

She left the room, her hand hung back
to catch the switch on the way out
she left me, a ship out to sea
wondering what happened
to the lighthouse

She pulled the clouds
like a shade ‘cross the sun
then ripped them away
just when I looked up
to see where it had gone

She coaxed the moon
into hiding her face
at the right wrong time
when I needed a friend, just
when I thought my ship was coming in

Though I miss her light
I’m not sitting alone in the dark
I still have the stars
to keep me company
Though I miss her light
I won’t lose my way
I still have Polaris
to get me through the night
I’ll steer by the stars
to get me through the night

Monday, October 31, 2011

I'd Make Sinatra Sing This

If only I could play jazz/swing music, I would make this my crooner song. The situational is fictional. . . but I wish it wasn't.

Convince Me

I thought it’d take a while
‘fore I dared to love again
I would’ve said
I wasn’t ready, but Lady
your kiss is so convincing

The calendar claims
my day has not yet come
Aphrodite forgot
to schedule me in, but Lady
your kiss is so convincing

I would have sung out
I won’t dance, don’t ask me
the minute hand’s sayin’
it’s not time for song, but Lady
your kiss is so convincing

Orsino said, music is
the food of love, play on
I wanted to tell him
hey, I’m not hungry, but Lady
your kiss is so convincing

Hey Lady, I wasn’t ready
but your kiss is so convincing
Hey Lady, today wasn’t my day
but your kiss is so convincing
Hey Lady, I wasn’t going to serenade
but your kiss is so convincing
Hey Lady, I didn’t want Hershey’s
but your kiss is so convincing

Ok, Lady, you got me
I’m convinced
your kiss is so convincing
Hey Lady, I won’t mind
if you want to convince me one more time

Thursday, October 27, 2011

Missed Connections

 Poem: 10 minutes. Setting it to music: 20 minutes. Awesome.

Missed Connections


The second hand slips by
so quickly
measuring out moments
clips them off like Fate
trimming the strings of destiny

I saw you, I caught you
falling for me in between
tick and tock
You saw me, you caught me
staring at you

It happened in the grocery line
in the parking lot
at the Dollar store
I'd give a hundred more 
to catch a glimpse of you again

All I have of you is a fading
memory of that smile
though all the might-have-been
last me all day
the second hand it stole
our possibilities away

There was that one last
chance we didn't seize
I should have said hello
you should have said, don't go

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Roots

I've been forgetting to post lyrics and poems as I write them recently. My apologies.


Roots


I’m tired of playing
at being a tumbleweed
I want to put down roots
and grow into a tree
Reach into the sky
til my leaves turn blue
and I will only fall, my love
when I fall for you

When the sun is hot
I will be your shade
When the wind blows strong, my love
I will be your break
When the sky falls down
I will guard you from the rain

I’m softer than an oak
harder than a pine
ever young and ever green
somewhere in between

Come and play beside me
entwine your roots with mine
when you’re tired lean against me
and I’ll sing you a lullaby

When the sun is hot
I will be your shade
When the wind blows strong, my love
I will be your break
When the sky falls down
I will guard you from the rain

We’ll be a pair of apple trees
let our flowers bloom
when our fruit is ripe and sweet
send them out into the world
they'll down their own roots
how they'll them sew their own seeds
and when its time to move on, my love
we will go in peace 

I’m tired of playing
at being a tumbleweed
I want to put down roots
and grow into a tree
Reach into the sky
til my leaves turn blue
and I’ll only fall
when I fall for you

When the sun is hot
I will be your shade
When the wind blows strong, my love
I will be your break
When the sky falls down
I will guard you from the rain

Stay (Alice)

This song comes from the lines at the beginning of the post "Love Dreamt, Love Lost".

Stay (Alice)


I fall, I fall
I fall for her
wandering in Wonderland
maybe this time
the rabbit hole
will feel more like home;
Alice never stays.

I see her through the looking glass
a window pane away
a figment of her imagining
a dream from which she'll wake
Alice she never stays

I fall, I fall
I fall for her
wandering in Wonderland
maybe this time
the rabbit hole
will feel more like home;
Alice never stays. 

I'm always right here waiting
Tum tum tree and tulgey wood
Watching the toves gimble
and gyre in the wabe
for Alice to come and stay.

I fall, I fall
I fall for her
wandering in Wonderland
maybe this time
the rabbit hole
will feel more like home;
Alice never stays.

I fall, I fall
I fall for her
wandering in Wonderland
maybe this time
the rabbit hole
will feel more like home;
Alice never stays.
Alice won't you stay
Alice say you'll stay

I fall
I fall
I fall for her
Alice never stays

Encouragement


For your desperate cries
for the lonely ache that threatens
to eat you from the inside out
For the fear you’ll never be
more than a face in love’s crowd
there is always Pandora’s story

How many times have you (and I!)
unable to resist, opened
that heart-shaped box
released your self into the world
of broken promises and eyes
too blind to see the you of you?

Remember always, always, always
there is one last sotto voce cry
barely audible over the drum beat
that flushes cheeks when it all goes wrong
Remember always, always, always
there’s a tiny voice to soothe us
and make all the tears worth while

Friday, October 7, 2011

Love Dreamt, Love Lost


I fall, I fall
I fall for her
wandering in Wonderland
maybe this time
the rabbit hole
will feel more like home;
Alice never stays.

My subconscious decided to dwell on my frustration with lost love last night. I had another sci-fi/fantasy dream, which makes four story driven dreams in the last five nights. It’s the end of this one that stuck with me.

In my dream, I met a woman who loved me as much as I loved her. I knew she was the one. I don’t think we as much as touched or kissed, we were in the middle of that playful banter stage. Much like Petruchio and Katherine but with less vehemence. A faceless man came, I think to kill my character in the dream. He pulled out a gun and “Kate” tried to get me out of the way. Something like this:

The newcomer pulled his hand from his coat. I barely noticed the glint of metal in his hand, but Kate did.
“Petruchio, gun!” she shouted and pushed me. I grabbed her wrist and started running, but it was too late. The gun leveled with ceiling and the man fired. One shot. Another. A third. A fourth. Another. A final shot. Each bullet found its home in my Kate. Ripped holes in her body, in my heart.
I caught her as she started to fall and lowered her gently to the floor. My mind was reeling.
As she lay there she said to me, her voice weak, “I would have loved you forever.”
“I will,” I said.

Sigh. There was more, but I don’t feel like wasting today on the details. As far as an interesting story, it was a pretty good dream. But that scene was certainly a metaphor for the way my love life has been going. The only difference here was that in this dream, she was taken from me instead of leaving for whatever life she imagines is better out there. Which, in spite of the tragedy of it is better in a way than abandonment.

Don’t think this dream has me down or is weighing on me. It was just a dream. And the scene a reflection of not only something that’s been eating at me, but a symbol as well of the hope that still resides in me. She’s out there and someday we’ll find each other, which is far more important than the possibility of losing her. In the meantime, I think it was also a message that it’s time and I’m ready to put the last love I found to rest.

I’ll leave you with a few lines that came to me as I wrote:

I’m done jumping fences
mowing other’s lawns
It’s time to grow a garden
among the green enough
grasses of my soul.


Thursday, August 25, 2011

Caritas


You could be half a world away,
it wouldn’t matter.
Your voice could be too quiet to hear,
it would make no difference.
I guess what I want to say is
wherever you go,
whatever you do,
regardless of clocks and calendars
the details won’t matter
you can trust that in me
you will always have someone
who loves you for you.

Monday, August 8, 2011

Sail Away (With Me)


There she goes again
out the door
she sails away
I’m tired of this
being the story of my life

For once, love don’t leave me
standing on the dock
watching you fade
For once, prove to me
I’m not the only one
who makes dreams come true
take me with you
take me with you
when you go, when you set sail
take me with you

My heart is yours
I’m not asking to be your anchor
I just want to be carried away
on the same wind that carries you
When your arms are tired
I’ll be happy to take the helm
Point us in the right direction
and I’ll take us there together

For once, love don’t leave me
standing on the dock
watching you fade
For once, prove to me
I’m not the only one
who makes dreams come true
take me with you
take me with you
when you go, when you set sail
take me with you

When you cast off
don’t leave me castaway
on this shore without you
Don’t leave me standing here
watching you drift away 

Oh, love
when there’s no wind
let me drift beside you
Oh, love
when the storm comes
let me ride it with you
And love
when there’s nothing else
let it be
you and me, the sails and the sea

For once, love don’t leave me
standing on the dock
watching you fade
For once, prove to me
I’m not the only one
who makes dreams come true
take me with you
take me with you
when you go, when you set sail
take me with you

There she goes again
out the door
take me with you
I could get used to this
being the story of our life

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

It's Enough to Love


It’s enough to love.  You believe it, though in moments like these, it’s harder to do. You wake up next to her in the morning, embrace her, leave her lying in your bed naked but for what amounts to a few threads. The same place you woke up the day before and the day before that. You kiss her cheek on the way out. Wherever you are, wherever you go, you always reach out to touch her, you reach out to make a connection that says not, “you are mine” but simply “I am yours.” You’re not saying, “I can’t go on without you.” It’s more eloquent, a simple gesture that resigns itself to “my life is better for having you in it.” Because it is, as you’ve told yourself, enough to love. It’s enough to wrap your arms around her as you fall asleep. It’s enough to play all day long with her by your side. Hike mountains with her, climb down to rivers, ride horses, read at coffee shops, watch parades. Love doesn’t mean your lips on hers. It doesn’t mean her clothes cascading to the floor. It doesn’t mean commitment. Love means compassion, empathy, giving, giving, giving. Love is an end to self. Its own reward. It’s enough to love.

You tell yourself this because first, it’s true, and second, to lift the weight from your heart. If it isn’t enough to love, then the heart becomes the world on Atlas’ shoulders. The heart becomes a terrible gravity. We fight hard enough to stand against gravity as it is. Love can’t be a burden, you tell yourself, because if I love, then I’ll never walk alone. Love is no piece of furniture that takes two to carry. At worst, (at best), love is a canvas chair, easily lifted, carried casually from one friendly fire to another.

It’s enough to love. Love is an ocean, not a river. There may be shores but there are no banks. There may be islands but only to rest upon before we cast ourselves to the mercy of the sea again. It is buoyant and limitless. It will carry us, if we let it. It must, because if it cannot carry me, I am lost. I don’t have the strength to carry love. I don’t have the strength to try. I can only be the sail on its sea and let its winds take me wherever they blow. I must have strength, but only the strength to let go of my desire for a goal; I must have the will to keep my sails full and move ever onward. I must deny expectation, deny conditions and contracts, deny yes and no. There can only be existence, not control. I cannot bend love to time nor compass rose, it has no direction, no definition. It is a statement of being, like “I am. You are. We are.” Love is. And because love is, it must be enough.

So I give myself to love. Unconditionally, to love. Without purpose, to love. As a journey, to love. I do not give myself over to love romantic, I do not give myself to love platonic. I give myself to love without adjectives, without scope, breadth, width, depth. Love has none of these, for they are all limits. I give myself to love beyond limits. I give myself to love beyond words. For it is enough to love.

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Take Me (I'm Yours)

Take Me (I'm Yours)


I don’t know where life’s going to take me
don’t know if life will take you from me
or take me
from you

I do know
I want to take this life in stride
take it one day at a time
seize every moment
share them with you

I may take it for granted
the sun will rise tomorrow
but I won’t take it for granted
you’ll be there when it does
with those kisses, the smile that lights
any room you’re in

(you have so many of them
I want to be there to see
so many, many more)

An astronomer spends so many nights
staring at the stars
he forgets that once they called to him
like a lover to her bed

But I, I’m still amazed
every step I take moves me closer
to another dance with you
and I, I won’t make promises
because if you just wait you’ll see
always looking for constellations
in the stars in your eyes
is just part of being me

I don’t know where life will take me
but I’d like to see if maybe it’d consider
bringing you along

and I don’t  know where life will take you
but I’d like it to consider
taking me along

(if there’s a ride, let’s ride it
if there’s a path, let’s walk it
if there’s a boat, let’s sail it
if there’s a song, let’s dance it
if there’s a chance, let’s take it
take it, let’s take a chance together
take me
I’m yours)

Monday, June 6, 2011

One Word


One word
a term without terms
no contracts, just unconditional
love, love, love.

One word
all we’re all really searching for
is someone to sing to
with love, love, love.

One word
could be a panacea
if we’d all place our faith
in the right place
in love, love, love.

One word
is all you need
cause even God believes
in love, love, love.

One word
is all you need
cause even God believes
in love, love, love. 

Friday, June 3, 2011

Trespasses (Kiss Me)


Give me that trespass
so sweetly urged
and when you’re through
we’ll take a moment to breathe
and I, I’ll give it back to you

I’m not much for praying
but if we can
let lips do what hands do
I think I could happily
spend my life praying with you

Let’s stay in this moment
there’s no better scene
let’s draw the curtains
play out the whole thing
where you and I will never be seen

If you’re not certain
then you play the saint
and by your lips I’ll purge my sin
if you’re discontent
with my sins on your lips
I confess
I’m ready and eager for you
to give me my sin again

Don’t go when you’re called
stay, Juliet, stay
starstruck not starcrossed
and we’ll never care
whether a nightingale's or lark’s song
fills the bright morning air.

Let’s be in this moment
there’s no better scene
let’s draw the curtains
play out the whole thing
where you and I will never be seen

Give me that trespass
so sweetly urged
and when you’re through
we’ll take a moment to breathe
and I, I’ll give it back to you

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Furniture

Furniture

When I come home
tired from my day at work
I want to sink in to your warm embrace
the way I do
when I collapse with relief
into the arms of an easy chair

I want your head
to nestle on my shoulder
and breathe me
the way you do
when you steal my pillow
after I leave in the morning

I want us to pose
like some sculpture 
you picked up 
at the antique shop 
down the street
a pair of lovers 
locked in a kiss

Some days we’ll come in together
dressed like coat racks
to keep us safe from the cold
We’ll sheer each other 
shed our woolen winter skins
and do our playful best
to figure out who makes the better bed

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Lyrical!


I self-published an e-chapbook of 14 poems/lyrics called Lyrical. It's free, so if you're interested in a copy send me an email at thequintessentialpoet@gmail.com and I'll send you one.

Monday, May 2, 2011

We All Want Love


We all want love but let’s stop wanting love right now, right this moment. We can’t get love at the drive through window. Love isn’t a fast food. It’s not a greasy, artery clogging hamburger with fries and a large drink. It’s not a menu item and you can’t super size it nor order it any way you want. When we’re hungry for love, we can’t pull it out of the fridge and stick it in the microwave. Instead, let’s want companionship, conversation, a good start. Let’s be on the receiving end of a great smile, a welcome laugh. I think we’ll find that when the time comes, if we ask for a friend, an activity partner, someone interesting to spend an evening with, love will come on its own. Love is like homemade bread. Gather your ingredients. Mix them together. Knead the dough, shape it. Let it rise for a while. Bake it. A good loaf of bread takes patience. So does love.
We all want love but let’s stop expecting it. Let’s stop feeling entitled to it. Love is an art, a skill. Keep a beginner’s mind. Every time you put yourself out there, you’re starting over with a blank slate, a blank page, an untouched piece of wood or stone. Every time you put yourself out there, you’re asking another artist to add their opinion. No matter how brilliant you both are, no matter how much you see eye to eye, you’re going to have to struggle to work together on this masterpiece. Love doesn’t come gift wrapped. Let’s stop asking it to be.
We all want love, but let’s stop hurrying toward it. Love is not a race. It’s not about winning a heart but earning one. If you treat love as a goal, you’ll miss out on the journey and the journey doesn’t have a destination. Love is a long walk around a lake. Sometimes the view is breathtaking. Part of the path may be sunny and part of it may be shaded. The path will climb and fall. Sometimes you walk together in silence and sometimes you learn something new from a passionate conversation or just remember good times you've spent together. You may get frustrated by the litter some careless hiker left upon the ground. The possibilities of this walk are endless. When the walk is over, you’ve simply come back home and you’ll rest and start again.
We all want love but let’s believe in eventualities. Let’s ask for what we can have now and build on those foundations. Someone like me will ask you to dance, to sail, to drink wine and coffee, to listen to him play guitar and sing. On the occasional beautiful day, he may even ask you to take a walk around the lake. Or play frisbee golf. Think about what you want to ask him. And then, perhaps, as you sit in the car, next to each other on a park bench talking beneath the trees or across the table at breakfast you’ll discover that somehow, you’ve fallen “accidentally in love.” 

Thursday, April 14, 2011

The Red String of Destiny


 In America, some people believe in soul mates, or true love, two people who are meant to be together in exclusion of all others. I don't particularly hold to this, that there's only one right person out there for everyone. In Japan (though it originated in Japan), the talk about the red string of destiny, which ties two people together. It may be a long string, have knots or tangles, but it's tied around the finger of these two people. I really like the imagery of it, it's much more appealing and visceral than "souls". It's arguable whether it's limited to love. I'd have to do more research. 

    The following poem was written with this in mind. Akai Ito is Japanese for "red string".

"An invisible red thread connects those who are destined to meet,
regardless of time, place, or circumstance.
The thread may stretch or tangle,
but it will never break."
- an ancient Chinese belief

Akai Ito

Where does this red string go?
It goes out the door,
stretches down winding roads.
It is wet in the places it crosses rivers or streams.
Or is that the ocean?
It passes so quickly over the horizon.

Sometimes the other end feels close,
but there is only another knot
typing up the hands of the clock.
When the tangle unravels
I lose sight of it again.

I wonder
if the other end is half a world away or down the street
around the corner, tied to some bright smile
that lights up whenever I speak.

Where does this red string go?
All I know is somewhere
there's someone at the end.

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Short of Breath

Short of Breath

And this love,
which for once didn't seem to burn
on the fuel of the not quite unrequited,
this is the love I sang of:
the star crossed,
tangled knot twist of fate
the prayer she'd never let go
wave-borne to crash
against the rocky shore
where it now lies
beached and gasping,
the tide of possibility and desire
rushing back to sea
so constantly just out of reach,
a storm that left behind
only the frantic need to relearn how to breathe
this essence of life that we call air,
this necessity which, in the short, exquisite
hourglass of this love,
was replaced by something
more intoxicating, entrancing, encompassing,
and more precious than oxygen.

Friday, April 1, 2011

Myself and Somebody Like You

     Another set of lyrics without music. Another of my endless love songs for no one. I think, perhaps, that when they become love songs for someone (or somebody), they'll probably still hold on to that feeling. But that's a story unwritten.

Myself and Somebody Like You

Lookin' ahead
I know we're getting closer
Lookin' ahead
I can almost see you
day by day 
the picture's getting clearer
like the way home 
on a winter night.

So the road's been long
so the way's been winding
who cares when the journey's end
is just the start
I know there's a greater adventure
for myself and somebody like you.

Lookin' back
things are still a little fuzzy
Like I've had a few too many, that's right
I can't tell
if it's all hist'ry
or if there's a story that's yet to be told

So the road's been long
so the way's been winding
who cares when the journey's end
is just the start
I know there's a greater adventure
for myself and somebody like you.

Lookin' at me now
I know there's one life we're living
one red string 
though it's tied in knots
if you follow its path I know that you'll find me
like the way home
it just feels right.

So the road's been long
so the way's been winding
who cares when the journey's end
is just the start
I know there's a greater adventure
for myself and somebody like you.

and I know for the rest of my life
it'll be
just myself
and somebody like you
just myself and somebody like you.

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Reasons


   This poem developed when I was thinking about reasons I like the girl I've been seeing as much as I already do. We met when she responded to a post I made on Craigslist, in which she was well spoken with complete sentences and paragraphs. Words. After a couple of weeks, we had our first date and it went well. Within the first couple of hours we had planned another and a day later, yet another. In three dates we've spent over 26 hours together. Time. And now, I find myself wanting to spend more and more time with her, to do more things, to talk more, to see where all this leads. Desire.

Reasons

In the beginning
there were words.
Handshakes were words;
smiles, words; chemistry, words.
When I asked the world for love
you gave me what I loved:
words. Words like paintings,
words that defied black and white,
words like a palette for creating life.

Next, in medias res,
there was time spent, freely
as though we are rich with time,
as though time well spent
was a spice to use liberally to add zest
to the days we seize together.
When I asked the world for love
you gave me what I loved:
time. Time on a clock
without a face or hands,
time given free reign,
given its reins, unbridled,
allowed to run.

Now, in this moment,
there is desire.
Like perfume, I breathe in
and my head is filled with desire,
desire defined and undefined
desire for the hourglass to be set on its side
or to ride in its sands
with you right beside me.
When I asked the world for love
you gave me what I loved:
desire. Desire to taste
your lips tasting the wine from mine,
desire to have you, to hold you
desire to want you, desire
to revel in you,
and finally, the desire
to revel in your desires.


Monday, March 28, 2011

Song for Her

     I had an amazing weekend. It was mostly one very, very long date with a four break for sleep in between. I met my date at 6:45 on Saturday night and we went to see Little Shop of Horrors at the local theatre. Afterward, we went to a wine bar and a pub. I got home at 2:30 in the morning and got up four hours later to get ready to meet her again for coffee at 8 before we went skiing/snowboarding at 9. We came down in time for lunch, then picked up her dog and I took her out to my parent's place. We hung out with my parents, talked, I played guitar for her and took her back to her car around 10 pm. While I was playing I started to write a song for her, but didn't get too far. The first line stuck in my head though, so in my spare time at work today, I came up with the following. I'll likely add a chorus before I call it complete. Also, it's a working title, but I kind of like it.


Song for Her

You kissed the wine from my lips
lost your way in my music
and never looked back

Your star flashed across the sky
down the road less traveled by
and straight into my life

If there was ever another path
these last few days washed it away
and we’ll never know the difference

I’m looking forward to a here and now
so tangled up in you
we’ll never unravel.

So here’s to seizing the day
and taking a leap of faith
if we fall, we’ll fall together

You kissed the wine from my lips
gave in to the music
and never looked back.

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Tiny Buddha

    Tiny Buddha is one of the blogs I've taken to reading recently. (Along with Zen Habits and Goodlife Zen).

    The following article, "7 Vital Choices for Happy Relationships", is well worth reading for anyone, whether you're in a relationship or not. In fact, most good advice is worth reading, even if you're not in a situation to use it. My choir teacher in high school always taught us that practice makes permanent, and I think if you're going to be ready to seize Kairos by the beard when he goes by, you must always prepare. Whatever your goal or desire, if you're not ready for it when it arrives it will slip out of your hands. So practice and prepare, so that when the moment comes you don't even have to think to seize hold of it.

Let's Be - lyrics


Let's Be

I know a good thing when I see it
I’m not just chasing rainbows
I’m here for the now
how about we just enjoy it
instead of playing games
let’s give it all we’ve got
while we still have time to give it

I know the rules say
you shouldn’t go all in
on your first hand
only fools rush in
but I think maybe
I found a pot of gold
while I was admiring the rainbow

Don’t make the mistake
of thinking I’m in a hurry
I’m in this for the journey
I’m not in a race against the clock
It’s just clear to me
no matter how short or long the walk
I’ll enjoy spending my free time beside you

Don’t worry about things
like too much, too fast
or whether or not the good times last
This isn’t one of those stories
with a pre-determined plot
don’t worry about wearing a parachute
It’s a leap of faith not fate

I won’t tell you I’m not crazy
I don’t have a lot of faith in sanity
I believe in tangible things
like the joy in your smile
when you’re laughing at me
for laughing at me

I won’t ask you for anything
all I have is what I’m offering
I’ve a lot of time and a few ideas
and all I’m really saying is
if you want a share in what I’ve got
no matter what the future has in store
any quantity or quality of what’s mine is yours